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Old 03-29-2011, 10:23 AM
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Imo, this guy has hit the nail squarely on the head. He addresses the pc problem as one of a childish refusal to have honest discourse on specific "touchy" issues, which really do need to be addressed with some semblance of adult behavior and objectivity. Kudos to him for his commentary.


7 Topics We Can't Have Adult Conversations About in America - Page 1 - John Hawkins - Townhall Conservative

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In a world where politics has become all-consuming and there's an interest group looking for an opportunity to exploit every issue, it has become almost impossible to have adult conversations about certain subjects. The moment you try to do so, legions of grievance mongers, ideologues and bottom feeders start belting out scripted responses that have nothing to do with the topic at hand and everything to do with what they imagine your motivations to be and how ugly, stupid, and flawed they think you are as a human being.

What this means is that certain crucial issues never really get discussed in this country. Instead, we just end up with people insulting each other back and forth. That's too bad because these are not small matters. To the contrary, they're rather consequential and they deserve to be seriously discussed instead of treated like partisan footballs.

1) An Overly-Feminized Society: Women have come a long way in the last fifty years, but you'd hardly know it from the feminist rhetoric we hear. Maybe instead of raging against the patriarchy, we should start asking if men are now getting the short end of the stick. Does that sound wacky? Tell that to a dad who's fighting for custody of his child in divorce court. How about when it comes to abortions? We keep hearing that it takes two people to make a baby and that both parties are responsible for raising a child; so how come the father is locked out of the decision-making when it comes to deciding whether there's going to be an abortion? If women are earning 57 percent of the college degrees these days, maybe we should be asking how our education system is failing our young men. Women may feel like they still have it tougher, but percentage-wise, there are probably as many men who feel like our gender is the one getting the raw deal. The difference is that men aren't usually willing to say it out loud.

2)Illegal Immigration: If you try to discuss the problems associated with illegal immigration, the only response is, "You just don't want Hispanics here!" That's really shorthand for, "We don't ever want to have a real discussion about the issue." Here's the simple reality: Because we have so many poor Hispanic countries near our southern border, the majority of illegal immigrants in this country is ALWAYS going to be Hispanic. We can never seem to get past that fact to really talk about all the other issues associated with illegal immigration. For example, are illegal immigrants putting Americans out of work? Are they driving down salaries that American workers are paid? If we allow illegals in the country to have citizenship, won't that just encourage more illegal immigrants to come here? Does it really make sense to allow millions of manual laborers, most of whom are poor and uneducated, to become American citizens who'll be eligible for welfare, food stamps, and Social Security? Wouldn't that just be importing poverty into the country? Are the millions of illegals in this country actually changing our culture for the worse? Should we put an end to birthright citizenship for the children of two illegals? Could it actually be dangerous over the long term to have millions of people here who aren't loyal to the United States and believe they have a right to be here illegally because the southern United States is "stolen land?"

3) Legal Immigration: Despite the attempts to conflate this problem with illegal immigration, it's a very different issue. For one thing, most Americans agree that legal immigration is a good thing -- at least to a certain extent. Still, if we start with the presumption that we do have a right to control who enters our country and that the goal of legal immigration should be to improve life for the people who are already here, there are a lot of important questions that deserve an answer other than, "You hate immigrants." We need to start asking: Should our immigration policy be based on merit instead of family connections? We're the most desirable location in the world; so why not take the best of the best? If we were actually bringing in rocket scientists, engineers, and computer programmers, then maybe it would be time to ask if we should increase the number of people we're allowing to immigrate to our country. Our immigration policies are actually changing the racial make-up of our country. Should we put a stop to that? Should we focus on bringing in more people from Western nations with similar cultures? How about we make immigrants ineligible to receive welfare or food stamps? These are all very relevant questions that we never really have any back-and-forth on. That should change.

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: A lot of people would argue that we do discuss this issue seriously, but that's not really the case. Many people give lip service to the idea that our spending is "unsustainable" and theoretically agree that we need to do something about it, but they fiercely resist actually getting down to brass tacks and distract, distract, distract when it's time to talk about real world solutions. Realistically, we cannot get our spending under control without dealing with Social Security and Medicare. Moreover, on the state and local level, union pensions have to be dealt with. Then there are taxes. Here's the truth: Taxes must go up at some point and we can't tax the rich enough to fix the problem. What that means is that the middle class must pay more in taxes, not for better services, but to pay for what we've already spent. If you disagree with what conservatives like Paul Ryan and Rand Paul have come up with, that's fine and dandy. Just present your own numbers that explain how we're going to pay off a 1.5 trillion dollar deficit, a 14 trillion dollar debt, and 100 trillion dollars in unfunded Medicare/Social Security liabilities without cutting NPR, PBS, cowboy poetry or anything else liberals think is essential.

5)Gay Marriage: Our republic has survived for 200+ years without gay marriage. Up until the last couple of decades, even gay activists weren't seriously trying to redefine marriage. So now, suddenly, anyone who opposes it is a homophobe? How about we discuss the fact that being pro-gay marriage is incompatible with being a Christian? Isn't forcing Christian churches to have gay marriages a violation of their First Amendment rights? Isn't it entirely possible that gay marriage could cheapen and demean heterosexual marriage leading to less marriages, which would harm society? Should we be doing something that helps mainstream an extremely unhealthy lifestyle? Why do we need a religious ceremony for gays when civil unions could supply the same legal rights without being nearly as controversial?

6)Racism: At what point can we all stop pretending that America hasn't done a 180 degree turn-around on race issues since the sixties? People yell “racism" so much these days that you'd think Democrats like Bull Connor and George Wallace are still around persecuting black Americans. Could we start by perhaps acknowledging that affirmative action is immoral government-sponsored racism against white Americans that undermines the achievements of all African Americans? Is it worth discussing the possibility that the sky-high illegitimacy rate in black America is ten times more of a factor in their problems than racism? How many black Americans fail simply because they've been told their entire lives that they're victims and that the deck is stacked against them? How about black racism? Louis Farrakhan, who's well liked in black America, is as much of a scumbag as a KKK leader and everyone knows black Americans supported Obama over Clinton purely because of his skin color. We rightfully condemn racism and race hatred amongst whites; so why do blacks get a pass on the same issue? Can we also admit that being black is often a huge advantage in pursuing scholarships, getting promotions, and avoiding getting fired? When the president of the United States is black, isn't that a pretty good indication that racism has become a very minor factor in American life?

7) Radical Islam: There's plenty of talk about radical Islam, but few genuine conversations about the subject because there are so many difficult questions to answer. How do we define a moderate Muslim? How do we tell the difference between the moderate Muslims and the radicals? Shariah law is barbarism that's incompatible with Western civilization. How do we stop it from spreading here? Should the unique problems associated with Islam affect our immigration policy? Why aren't more moderate Muslims speaking out against radical Islam? There are already Americans who've been intimidated by the violent threats of radical Islamists. What's the best way to keep those threats from inhibiting free speech? These are not bigoted questions; they're questions being asked by Americans all across the country. Unfortunately, instead of talking it over, some people would rather play the victim and scream "Islamophobia." It's not Islamophobia to question why parts of Islam have become so intertwined with murderous violence and why more Muslims aren't renouncing that violence the way people from other religions have in similar circumstances.
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Imo, this guy has hit the nail squarely on the head. He addresses the pc problem as one of a childish refusal to have honest discourse on specific "touchy" issues, which really do need to be addressed with some semblance of adult behavior and objectivity. Kudos to him for his commentary.
So many subjects go untouched, IMO, because people refuse to believe that what they have thought all these years could possibly be changed.

Like a child who claims to not like peas, glues their lips shut when given peas. But sneak it in with something else, and chances are, they won't notice, much less reject the peas.

Adults think much the same way. Direct head-on, and they don't want to hear about it. Slide it in sideways, and they may be open to discussing it.

One of the methods of deflecting discussion is to slash at the messenger, we've seen plenty of that here. Skewing the intent of a discussion from subject to messenger is usually pretty obvious, and is sometimes called out. But not often enough, IMO. Debate ending words are flung from all sides when people get uncomfortable with the subject matter. One of the most prevelent problems I've seen is not only the debate/discussion techniques, but the fact that the debates have no goal, no wish to find a resolution to the problem, just screaming and yelling at each other.
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One of the methods of deflecting discussion is to slash at the messenger, we've seen plenty of that here. Skewing the intent of a discussion from subject to messenger is usually pretty obvious, and is sometimes called out. But not often enough, IMO. Debate ending words are flung from all sides when people get uncomfortable with the subject matter. One of the most prevelent problems I've seen is not only the debate/discussion techniques, but the fact that the debates have no goal, no wish to find a resolution to the problem, just screaming and yelling at each other.
Agreed. I believe the reason for this deflection and attack of the messenger is because people take things so personally, that in reality aren't personal at all. As an example, if I say I think so-and-so politician is an idiot or a jackass, those who support politican so-and-so seem to think that I am attacking them personally, when it has nothing to do with any poster on this forum. I think we've become so group-minded as a society, and lost our sense of individual identities, that we feel assaulted if anyone of like mind is not liked. Discussions often never get off first base, and just seem to remain cry-baby threads.
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Agreed. I believe the reason for this deflection and attack of the messenger is because people take things so personally, that in reality aren't personal at all. As an example, if I say I think so-and-so politician is an idiot or a jackass, those who support politican so-and-so seem to think that I am attacking them personally, when it has nothing to do with any poster on this forum. I think we've become so group-minded as a society, and lost our sense of individual identities, that we feel assaulted if anyone of like mind is not liked. Discussions often never get off first base, and just seem to remain cry-baby threads.
I agree and know I'm guilty of the mindset.
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So many subjects go untouched, IMO, because people refuse to believe that what they have thought all these years could possibly be changed.

Like a child who claims to not like peas, glues their lips shut when given peas. But sneak it in with something else, and chances are, they won't notice, much less reject the peas.
which of those topics are you referring to?
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which of those topics are you referring to?
Pretty much all of them. I've yet to see one of these topics be discussed without a derailment into the petty. Not to say I am completely innocent, but I give honest effort to avoid the pettiness.

If you have seen one of these topics actually get debated (other than the one-on-ones that have happened) with a resolved closure, do let me know and I'll stand down.
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The liberal "shut up" tactics have been successful for so long.


But it doesn't work with me.




And a lot of people are fed up with it too.
It's wearing thin and that's long past due.
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Ah, correct me if I'm wrong, but, I think we have beat all these subjects to death on this board, except maybe the feminizing of our society. And, I would dare say that when I have spoken out about these with friends and family I don't go weak in the knees.

I think all these have been topics around the water cooler at one time or another, the problem isn't that we don't talk about them. The problem stems from both sides being so entrenched in their belief's that nothing happens to fix the problem.
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Ah, correct me if I'm wrong, but, I think we have beat all these subjects to death on this board, except maybe the feminizing of our society. And, I would dare say that when I have spoken out about these with friends and family I don't go weak in the knees.

I think all these have been topics around the water cooler at one time or another, the problem isn't that we don't talk about them. The problem stems from both sides being so entrenched in their belief's that nothing happens to fix the problem.
I agree, we have beaten them to death, but not to a solution or resolution, to busy slashing at eachother IMO.

They just always seem to turn into melees of the worst sort.
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