My Husband and I Made a Sex Contract

cnredd · #1 (**permalink**) 07-03-2010, 03:06 AM

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After the birth of our first child, my libido plummeted. Things went from bad to worse in my relationship, and my husband was accusing me of abandoning him. So I made a sex agreement: Twice a week, I’d do it, whether I felt like it or not. It sounds sort of brutal, but I love him and didn’t want to lose him over sex. And it turned out that once I got started, I always felt better. Pretty soon we didn’t have to schedule it anymore, and after we had our second kid, it was easier to get back on the horse. Now we have a good sex life and I’m glad we stuck to it. But I know it would have sounded pretty weird to my earlier single self.

Not a bad idea actually...

when one-half of a relationship finds sex obligatory and the other side denies it, the whole relationship usually falls apart. One side goes distanat; the other side finds their "release" elsewhere...Making sure it's part of the program shows a REAL commitment...

Oftencold · #2 (**permalink**) 07-03-2010, 03:14 AM

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Originally Posted by cnredd

My Husband and I Made a Sex Contract

Not a bad idea actually...

when one-half of a relationship finds sex obligatory and the other side denies it, the whole relationship usually falls apart. One side goes distanat; the other side finds their "release" elsewhere...Making sure it's part of the program shows a REAL commitment...

OK, I saw this thread title, and the name of its author and I thought, "oh, I didn't know that about cnredd. . ."

MrLiberty · #3 (**permalink**) 07-03-2010, 07:03 AM

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Originally Posted by cnredd

My Husband and I Made a Sex Contract

Not a bad idea actually...

when one-half of a relationship finds sex obligatory and the other side denies it, the whole relationship usually falls apart. One side goes distanat; the other side finds their "release" elsewhere...Making sure it's part of the program shows a REAL commitment...

Yeah, and as we know now thanks to salty, if you live on a farm in Georgia that elsewhere is a mule.....

saltwn · #4 (**permalink**) 07-03-2010, 09:53 AM

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Read this years ago; advocates something similar as well as other tips that were not at all found fashionable in the "Liberation" society at the time.

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