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Old 02-06-2008, 10:49 AM
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Default Re: Book Discussion- The Kite Runner

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Originally Posted by talloulou View Post
Geez I've read so many books since then I don't know how much I'd remember. I will say I found it completely understandable that Amir would hide during the "event." Being cowardly is something I can forgive. However as the story goes on I found his manner of "dealing" frankly unforgivable. As he struggled to forgive himself I must say I struggled to forgive him too. He became freaking unlikeable and I barely made it through the book. I understand that privilege is capable of weakening the spine but Amir had no spine. None at all. I am completely unable to understand how he turned on his friend/brother. Even if he was dealing with his own guilt over doing nothing his later behaviors are still inexcusable. As far as redemption stories go this one fell flat. I put the book down at the end not really convinced Amir was redeemed. He's a guy I wouldn't want to depend on and my eeeew feelings towards him remained long after I put the book down.
Remember that Amir was a 13 year old boy in a society where sodomy was not spoken of. He probably didn't have the tools to deal with what he has seen. He wasn't close to his father and would not have felt free to confide in him.

As for turning on his friend/brother, that was pure PROJECTION. He was angry at himself and turned that anger on Hassan. It was a dysfunctional way of dealing with a bad situation by a dysfunctional boy.

I can certainly understand Hassan's 'father's' reaction and taking the boy away from Amir.
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